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by **minidad** » Thu May 07, 2009 4:10 am

well....my friends and buddies of the Mini world....my life has been a BLUR since last THUR nite...my current life ended then....thoughts of lost mini...no kids...no wife of 19yrs....
I came home from work..wife sitting in chair by door...long story shortened...she wants me to leave/divorcing me...I knew things havent been what they were many years ago but I had no Idea this is what she was thinking...I have been fooling myself since thinking that she would change her mind but....we just finished filling out the petition to start the paperwork...it really saddens me.....but she has her mind made up and as I have done so many times before I will make this as easy for her as I can..I have spent many hours since doing the name changes and legal stuff to get this over..she can go on and do what ever she thinks she needs to be happy.....we will still talk I wont fight with her, I dont want anyone talking bad of her....after 19yrs I think we will still be friends...the kids need us both...I am giving her the house and MNISQUL...I have already sold my jeep and the Hummer..got an 09 Clubman S in Sparkling Silver...that was both a happy time and a very sad time..I got teary with my sales girl because she made it so easy and that I knew my cuurent life was over...My friends I count on you to be my support group as I move on...I am in my guest room now but will soon be out in an APT/condo till I find a home to buy... I WILL soon sign up for MITM and look forward to a great time there with all my Mini people..
Sorry for the downer news.
Sean

by **Louie B.** » Thu May 07, 2009 5:21 am

Sorry to hear man! PM me if you need any help with anything!

by **deemotored** » Thu May 07, 2009 6:17 am

WOW!

Sorry to read that Sean. You always have us to lean on.

by **Pipsqueak** » Fri May 08, 2009 3:40 pm

Wow! Sorry to hear that. If you need to talk please call me.

by **deemotored** » Fri May 08, 2009 3:47 pm

No, Adrienne...he's going to call ME! :meow

Just kidding everybody. Really!

by **danjmcs** » Fri May 08, 2009 3:54 pm

Sorry to hear Sean... but sounds like you guys are being pretty amicable about it all, certainly the best way, especially when kids are involved.

Growing up, I saw way too many friends who had parents that divorced, drag their kids through their own pettiness and crap, and the kids always ended up paying the worst price.

The last week certainly has taught me that we always have things in our lives to be thankful for, even when things don't seem to be going our way.

by **oldfart42** » Fri May 08, 2009 5:23 pm

deemotored wrote:No, Adrienne...he's going to call ME!

Just kidding everybody. Really!

Cool............. Cat Fight!!!

No really Sean, sorry to hear about all of this. Hopefully everything stays civil and ends quickly, so the regrouping can begin. That's where we come in!
Loking forward to seeing the new ride.

by **minidad** » Sat May 09, 2009 1:29 am

girls girls...there is plenty of me to go around....
see ya sunday!!!

by **YELLOWMINIAZ** » Tue May 12, 2009 2:55 am

I am sorry to hear your news. I don't know you well but sad to hear!!

by **deemotored** » Tue May 12, 2009 4:10 am

Oh to know him is to...hmmm :shock:

er, love him?

by **minidad** » Tue May 12, 2009 5:27 am

WOW!! all you girls are making me blush :oops:

Not that I mind all this attention...
Go ahead and keep it up.....
Im enjoying it....BUt really thank you for all
your support ladies...and yes I will continue to enjoy your
company and buy your refreshments when I can...
Hugs

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